Welcome to the Playbook Podcast, where we talk about love, money, sex, fame, and everything in between. I'm your host, Rebecca Jay, and I will be co-hosting with my good friend Christina Santa. Hey. And today we have the one and only Ulysus the Monster Diaz. How you doing? I'm doing great. How you guys doing? Very good. Thank you. Thank you for the opportunity. Thank you for coming. Of course. So, you are a boxing. You've been boxing for how long?

Uh, so I've been boxing since I was a kid. I started boxing as a kid. Uh, I did amateur boxing as like uh in my late teens, early 20s and then um you know, life. I had a rough life. So, I was in and out of prison and all that. But then I started my professional career at 35 years old. Oh, wow. So, it's been 10 years now. Wow. You're 45? about to be 45 in a month. Wow. That's the same time I started boxing, too. Yeah. That's crazy. Let's go. Retirement age getting into it. Exactly. That's exactly what I heard when I first got in. So, so Okay. So, you got into it. You've been fighting.

Yeah. Why didn't you just start? Why didn't you start earlier? Okay. So, you know, born and raised in Miami, you know, raised with a single mom. Um I have a great mom. She's still around, thank God. um you know she just had to work to keep a roof over her head and clothes on my back. So all the time I had free I found myself in trouble you know and you know as a young teen I went to juvenile detention. Then as a young in my early 20s uh I spent time in prison. Um mostly for fighting on the streets, fighting in school. Then you know when I once I got out I already had kids. I was trying to figure out life and how to make money and how to like find my place and you know I fell back into the streets. That's all I knew is, you know, how to

hustle and, you know, how to do uh you know, the Miami hustle, right? And uh finally at the age of I was actually I was 30 35 and I was just tired of my own [__] I was living in Denver, Colorado. I was part of the green rush and uh just one day I was just like tired of my own [__] just tired of the people I was around and just tired of all the negativity and tired of just trying to uh to find a way out and I call it my epiphany, my come to God moment. You know, I got on my knees that day and I cried to God and I was like, "God, please just take me out of this. I'm just sick of this." Um I had always trained. I had always worked out. I was training actually in Colorado. I packed

all my [__] moved back to Miami, got in the gym. That was the that was 2016. And then like December 2016, right before 2017, I had told my coach, I'm like, you know what? I want to take a fight. And honestly, at the moment, it was just like a for Instagram thing, you know, like I just want to do it. Um, I fought January 2017. I fought in Dominican Republic. I won by first round knockout and it was like the biggest rush of life in DR. Who were you fighting against? Um, I have no idea. Some, you know, they have different Yeah. I don't know who it was at the time. This is like 10 years ago. and somebody it was my first fight so they kind of you know match you up with somebody has few fights

u but I won by first round knockout like I said it was the biggest rush of life it was you know I got higher than any drug ever and I was like man you know what I really want to do this I was in a great gym where they held me accountable and you know I finally found out what hard work is consistency and I saw my mom and my friends like proud of me my mom not worried about where I was or what I was doing anymore um so I just stayed consistent I was in the gym for hours you know, every day. Uh, my biggest to me, my biggest factor that I think helped me was I just cut everybody off, everybody, family members, everything. I just stopped answering my phone cuz I knew just like, oh, let's

just go get a drink, you know, for one moment and that would tumble into three, four days and just take me out of rhythm. You're you're down a path you exactly wasn't trying to get. Exactly. So, I stayed consistent and here we are 10 years later. And how did you So, so when you started boxing, it was just like regular boxing. Yeah. So I start I started with regular uh glove boxing. What made you want to take the gloves off? So I that's what that was going to be my next question. Yes. So I grew up you know on the street in gangs and in prison juvenile descent center. So I fought

without gloves before I ever fought with gloves. Um but in 2019 BKFC approached me with an opportunity. We came to we came you know we negotiating for a minute. I finally fought for them February of 2020. Uh won that by first round knockout. Um, and then you know I started fighting for him. Then COVID hit March 2020. November was my next fight for BKFC. And November 13th, which is Friday the 13th, 2020, I set the record for the fastest knockout in combat sports history. I knocked the dude out in three seconds. But if you watch the video, it's actually less than that. Um, it's actually crazy. I've seen that knockout. He like just walks up, guy drops. That's it. The dude's sleeping. He's actually twisting on the floor.

Um, try to find that clip and put it somewhere. Yeah, for sure. put it right here. Uh, and that thing, you know, it put my name all around the world. It rang bells. I was like, I fought on a Friday and the next week I was getting calls from like Korea, Japan, uh, Italy around the world doing interviews, really put my name, you know, on, you know, on the big screen and I started getting better opportunities, started getting paid better for fights. I fought for the world title twice for them. And, um, you know, just fighting in itself, I always tell people it saved my life. It gave me great opportunities like this one. We'll start with you guys. So, but okay. I know boxers get paid a lot, right? Well, I don't know.

Maybe I'm I'm I know for fights you can get paid like an incredible amount. You can, but nowadays more than before, social media has a lot to do with it. So, you got to kind of build your social media, build yourself. That's why you see a lot of these p press conferences where people are talking [__] and putting each other down because that's going to sell the fight. That's going to get clicks on social media and that's going to put you like, "Oh, I want to see this guy either get beat or win." You know what I mean? So, that's more of like the lifestyle we live now. Um, I think if you're great on social media and a mediocre fighter, you're still going to get good opportunities and get paid well.

What's the most you ever got paid and for a fight? Um, the most I ever got paid for a fight, man. So, for a fight itself, I've gotten, you know, close to like a hundred. U, but then you get sponsorship money and stuff like that. So, that's where the money's at. The sponsors take care of you. And yeah, that's where like, you know, and the thing with sponsorship money, it's continuous. You know, for a fight, you get paid for that night and that's it. It's over. You got to keep training. You still got to eat, you still got to pay the gym bills, and your life keeps going, you know? Definitely shout out to my sponsors. Who are your sponsors?

Uh, Accident Medical Group, West Miami Jewelry, and Isaiah App. They taking care. Yeah, you guys are doing God's work here, paying bills. Amen. Okay. And so, um, obviously your life changes. You, you know, like you go from being a what? A hoodlm. Yeah, pretty much. Ratchet. pretty much street fighting. So, like now you're just like this fighter. You're in movies. Me and him are actually co- co-hosts in a movie, co-stars. And guys, go out and watch Night Shift when it comes out. I think it's coming out

this summer hopefully. Yeah. Um, so now you have acting opportunities, um, doing interviews. How does life change? How did life change for you as far as like is it like more glitz and glammy? Okay, so that's a great question. So I tell everybody I went to prison, juvenile detent center, I got kicked out of school, everything for fighting. Now I turned that all around. I'm getting paid for fighting. I got a beautiful house. I got a beautiful wife, beautiful family. So I've turned it all around with the things that used to get me in trouble. I'm using it to benefit myself now. I did it the wrong way before. I'm doing it the right way now. Life has its

moments where it has been glitz and glammy. I get opportunities again like this one to be in a movie with you and many other opportunities have come along the way. Um, and that's because I've changed my state of mind, the way of thinking and it's really again fighting has really saved my life. It's given my kids a great life. Um, it's given me great opportunities. So yeah, I use something that was like hurting my life and I use that same exact thing and now it's a benefit to me. You work with Only Fans too as a sponsor or I don't I've reached out to them and we kind of we were going to do some together at the beginning but um never got into it. Never followed up with Only Fans.

Yeah, they sponsor fighters. Really? Yeah. If you want I can reach out to them. Separate note on that but I didn't know that. That would be great. I was just wondering if that was something I could ask later but never mind that. We'll No, you could ask that though. I didn't know that Only Fans sponsored Vit. They sponsor me. I didn't know that. Yeah. You got the socks on? Yeah. my brain. I'm I mean I do only that sucks. I'm not fighting over.

Um okay. So I think it's great that boxing, you know, saved your life and um it created kind of an outlet for you to, you know, be yourself without going to jail. Right. Absolutely. So, but uh like can we talk about like a time when um maybe it didn't like it hurt you? Yeah, absolutely. Um so, what ended up sending me to prison was I was on probation for fighting. Um I was on the streets at the wrong place at the wrong time with the wrong people. Ended up getting into a fight with an officer. Oh [__] And yeah, you know, that set me back completely. I was 22 years old at the time. uh turned 23, 24, and 25 in prison. Um already had kids like I said, so you

know, I got little kids coming to see me in prison. And that's where it really set me back, you know, and I mean at that moment, which it's happened, you know, it's happened a few times in my life where, you know, things like that happen and you think it's like the end of your life. I'm like, man, this life is over. I don't know what I'm going to do next. And looking back, it was probably one of the best things that happened to me cuz it put me in a bad place, but it taught me a lot of things, you know, and it kind of made me the person I am today. Right. Yeah. Two questions about the fight. Okay.

Was he in uniform? He was in uniform. And who won? I knocked him out. I'm not proud of it, but I knocked him out with one punch. He was You get a lot of time for that, don't you? Yeah. I got some time for that. And uh the thing was too, he had put it before I did anything, he had put his hands on me. He slapped me. So my retaliation was to punch him back and self-defense kind of. But not Yeah. But it doesn't work with the police too much, does it? No, it doesn't. Isn't that self-defense if he hits you? No, it wasn't. So could just walk up to you and smack you and then you got to stand there.

I feel like if somebody slaps you and then you knock them out cold, it's probably they're it's not going to hold up well in court. I mean, listen, I wish you guys were my lawyers. But yeah, it didn't work out for me that day again. I'm glad it did. I'm glad it didn't. Yeah. I just feel like if somebody smacks you, you have to punch them. Yeah. I felt like I got to set the tone. I was very reactive when I'm young. So, so you know, I mean, even though now I wouldn't, you know, I wouldn't put myself in a position to let somebody slap me either, but um yeah, my reaction was to do what I did

and again, it didn't pay off. Do you ever think like what if I would have started boxing when I was like 18? I think about that. I mean, not anymore as much, but when I first started, I thought about it a lot because again, I went professional at 35. Um, I had promoters tell me like, "Yo, kid, people retire at this age. You're starting. What are you doing?" I'm like, "You don't understand where I'm coming from." Like, I need to find something. And again, when I started, I kind of had one foot in, one foot out because only way I knew how to make money was hustling the streets. So, I, you know, I got into boxing. That's money out of your pocket

because you're not you're just training. Mhm. And you know, I still had to do what I had to do on the side until like, you know, I would say maybe a year later, I was like, "All right, I got to make a decision." Like, am I going to do this or this? And this is where I wanted to stay because I saw how proud my mom was of me. My kids were proud of me. My whole life I spent it lying to the closest people to me because like, oh, what does your dad do for a living? I'm a personal trainer. You know what I mean? Do you have boys or girls? Your kids? I have a daughter that's 24 and I have a son that's 12 about to be 13. And so do you feel like maybe is that something that he's interested in doing?

He loves fighting. He trains with me all the time, but he's uh he's more into football. He's going to be a football player. Oh, okay. So, still Yeah. in the sports. He can always pick the more fun sport later. Right. No, football pays way better. So, does it really? Well, you get paid millions and millions of dollars or There's no way. There's just so many of them. How do they keep like it depends I guess cuz some What kind of player you are?

You know when you get to the top of boxing you can get more. That's true. But the thing is box who's the top paid boxer right now? Top paid box. Jake Paul I'd say maybe Terren Crawford. Terren Crawford Canelo. Jake Paul and he just got paid I mean Anthony Joshua just got paid like 92 mil pardon for that fight. Yeah for one fight. 92 million. Yeah. So check this out. Right. For fighting. No. So, check this out. I'm glad we're on this topic cuz you just Wait, what? So, I know fun fact about her. She loves fighters, too.

Oh. Oh, can I tell you a story? Roshit, listen. In my life, I ever I never thought I would be so incredibly turned on watching people hit each other. We went to um Aiden Ross's risk. The brain risk. Yeah. Did you fight on it? That's what I fight. Listen, I'm not even necessarily like really into like fat dudes, but these two attack just like I'm call She's talking about Chibu right now. Leave your numbers in the comments. Shout out, but only if you punch each other. And you got to be good, too. I was just like, they came out not attractive to me at all and they walked out looking just like the most screddly

men I've ever seen in my life. They came out not attractive, then they came on me. She was over there like, "Damn, I'm getting slippery in the seat." And I was like, "Hold on." I was like, "Let me show you a video of me boxing. Does this do anything for you?" She's like, "Look, you I can hit people, too." But look, you made a comment earlier like, "Oh, no. I'll never fight." But imagine they tell you, "Okay, in 15 for 15 minutes, you got to fight somebody for 92." I do it for way less. I didn't get a bare knuckle for 92 mil. 92 million. I punched my mother for 92 We'll pick anybody on the street right now. You know what I mean? I'll bum them and tell them, "Hey, for 92 million, I need you to fight for 50 million." Like,

give it to Anthony Joshua for that. Yeah. I fight two of them. Yeah. No, 92 million changes things. It makes me wonder why there's not more boxers. That's crazy. Well, the thing is, you got to work yourself. You know, you're getting paid [__] until you work yourself up to there or you already have the audience going into it. Right. Well, you know, Anthony Joshua was an Jake Paul and he was an Olympic uh boxer, Anthony Joshua. So, you already have the name. So, how what do you how do you feel about all these influencers? You both of you because both of you guys are I'm I'm influenc

but like Okay. As somebody you didn't start off as like you just went into Right. Yeah. I had no influence at the time. Okay. Um, do you feel like it's a good thing for boxing or do you feel like it's kind of like it's set it back? So, I think it's a great thing because like I we spoke about earlier, I think social media drives a lot of your you know, whatever revenue you're going to get from fighting and just drives a lot of that process. So, the influencer getting into it now, you know, you got real fighters calling out influencers and getting paid 92 mil for this, you know. So, I think it's helped the sport, but they're not fighting necessarily like seasoned boxers, right? Or are these I mean, you got Jake Paul who's only

been fighting for what, like maybe eight years now. Yeah. Well, Jake Paul is a good fighter. Back in 2019, I was part of Logan Paul's camp. He fought KSI. I was in college. Oh, do you know Milton? I do. Milton. That's my coach. Is he? Yeah, that's my guy. Milton Supreme. Yes. That's my guy. He was his coach back then at that time. So, I was there at their house in LA. We'd be Christina knows literally everybody. Yeah. In Miami. My coach actually knows more people than me. That's the crazy part. Tell him to call me. Yes. Milton. Shout out. Shout out Milton Supreme. That's right. He's a man. Uh, so I was his coach at the time. I was in LA with

him. I spent the camp there for Logan. Now, at that time, I sparred Jake a few times. He was kind of learning. And, you know, to be honest, I at that time I beat him up a little bit. I'm not say I beat him up, but I put my hands on him a little bit more. Um, then in 2022, I actually just posted this picture on my Instagram. Uh, we sparred again. BJ Flores was his coach at the time. And Jay got a lot better. Like in a span of n 2019 to 2022, he got a lot better. And then he flew me out to Puerto Rico. I want to say maybe a year and a half ago. I was part of Jake Paul's camp when he fought I think Mike Perry. And Jake has gone great. You know, he takes the thing serious. You know, he's

a he's a kid with money. So he the good thing about that is, you know, he has chefs, he has coaches, he has track coaches. Um, he has what you need to be great. and he doesn't take that for granted, you know, he actually takes advantage of those situations and he's he's become a he's become I would say a great boxer. Yeah, I agree and I think a lot of people don't understand like you're saying like how much work he puts into it. He's got a breath work coach. He's got he does the cold plunges every day. I'm good friends with uh Decut, his coach that does like strength and conditioning with him, but they work hard. They do. He does. That's a breath work coach. So you can build up uh like your lung capacity. You can actually cause your body to get

extra oxygen. It works almost like a hyperbaric as well. Like you do different breathing exercises where you're Okay. You know, different things. And Oh, I think swimmers do that. Yeah. Calms singers. Yep. It calms your mind. It's meditation. You can actually I don't know if you've heard of DMT, but you can actually cause your body to have a DMT release. Yeah. I've done it a couple times and it's scary the first time, but it's it's like the highest high you can achieve just from breathing. Yeah, teach me how to do that. You got to look into Wimhof.

Yeah, I like Wimhof. He jumps in that cold water. That's That's another maniac. How long do I have to do it before I start feeling hot? It's It's like a series of hyperventilation. I don't know how you Oh, really? Oh, yeah. We'll do it after be at home and someone's gonna see me passed out like what the uh on the next episode. So, what's the biggest adjustment that you had to make from going from street boxing and going through, you know, professional boxing? So, just discipline, you know, being disciplined with myself when it comes to eating, sleeping, you know, not going out. um my biggest enemy and my hardest

fight ever was me fighting against myself. So, you know, conquering myself and again, not having those little like, oh, I did good for this week. I think Saturday I could do something, you know, and then get myself thrown off for however long. So, that was my biggest adjust adjustment and biggest thing that I had to conquer in myself was just stay disciplined, stay consistent. Um, and it's hard like anything else whenever you start anything, right? you start this podcast, maybe your first one wasn't as good as this one is. You know, you've done it a few times, but you know, you got to kind of get over that. Don't let your ego get in the way. Be like, "Oh [__] I suck at this."

You know, [__] this [__] I'm going to go do something else. No, you got to keep going. And the first day you suck. Six months later, you're a little better. Six years later, you're a lot better. You know, and then you just keep going. Well, it becomes nature after a while, right? It just becomes like a part of who you identity, right? Right. Um, but I mean like and as far as like the rule, I mean I don't know what the rules of boxing are. Like I don't know what's what's a foul or like you can't hit behind the head. Okay. I would imagine like there's there's definitely some different rules. I feel like there's less in BKFC.

Yeah. Well, kind of grab and hold. In bare knuckle boxing, there's uh there's it's called dirty boxing where you can hold somebody with one hand and as long as you got one hand free, you could use that hand, too. So that's not allowed in glove boxing, traditional boxing. And yeah, in bare knuckle you can do dirty boxing. Mhm. What's what's the hardest you've been hit? Like what's the most where you were just like, "Okay, this got this." So this is this might make me not want to do this [__] no more. I've never had that feeling. Thank God. Uh I've never been knocked out where I've been put to sleep ever in my life. You know, I've been dazed. I've been rocked.

I've been dropped. But I've always gone back up. I've always fought. Um, honestly, I there's not this one time where I'm like, "Oh, shit." You know what I mean? No, I've I've been hit probably harder like in sparring in practice than I have like in a real fight. Really? Even though it's I have been hit hard, but I think there's more adrenaline pumping in your veins when you're in front of a ton of people, right? The lights and everything. Yeah, you're right. Like I mean, I'm no fighter, but I've been in a scruffle or two and I don't remember [__] I just remember like You saw red. I saw a red I black out in his red dog.

No. So when you were street fighting, you know how everybody thinks cuz they street fight they could fight a boxer. How badly do you think you would knock yourself out if you could fight yourself back before you were training for real? Well, 100%. I right my me now would knock myself out back then. And the thing about street fights is like street fights is sucker punches. It's it's like one moment to another. You're not like all right. Yeah, you're ready. You're in one corner and coming out. You're not and you're not prepping for this, you know, street fights like what' you say? Bow. You know what I mean? And it turns into a tussle.

Depending where you are, 20 people jump in, you know. Yeah. So, yeah, me discipline now, not drinking, not doing anything, you know, eating right. Yeah, it definitely hurt the old me. Sorry, old Julie. Old Julie would be [__] up. Let's move on to relationships, Julie. Okay. How do you feel um this new life has affected your dating life? So, I met the woman of my dreams. I'm married to the woman of my dreams. Okay. Uh she's my angel. I met her in 2019. We've been together now six years. We've been married for a year and a half. She is the best thing that ever happened to me. Um I met her through one of my fighting coaches. She happened to

be in town. She wrestled for WWE for 12 years. Now she's with Oh, damn. Wow. So, she's a fighter as well in combat sports. We have to interview her, too. I can see that. She really athletic. Yeah, super athletic. She was a junior Olympian in gymnastics. She did a gymnastic for 18 years. Okay. She became a diver, won a national championship in diving, went to bodybuilding for fitness. She was a champion there in the Arnold Classic and the Olympia.

Oh, Julie couldn't have pulled it. Oh, couldn't have pulled it. Oh, Julie couldn't smell her socks, bro. Um Yeah. And then uh and then she did WWE for 12 years. She became the champ there. Now she's with TNA Wrestling, which is like the sister company. Uh she was the women's champ there. She was the uh tag team champion there. She's a champion in Australia. She's a champion for another uh local um wrestling thing. Equally as badass. Yeah. You know, no, she is way better than me. You know what I mean? And she's been doing it for longer. Long time. She's been super disciplined since she was a child. Taught me a lot of like discipline and you know, a lot of things of how to you know, um,

especially like eating right and everything because she's part of the bodybuilding circuit. So, so she probably is. I mean, I'm just I'm going to assume that she's had a lot to do with your transition, like your Absolutely. your growth, your success. Absolutely. For sure. She's had a lot to do with that. She's she's great with my kids. Like again, I call her my angel. She's the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm very blessed to have met her and Yeah. Thank you. Yeah. life has definitely changed for the better since I've been with her. I'm I'm a lot more calm. I grew up in Miami. Um, you know, and I don't know if you guys did, but you know, when you're in these Miami relationships, and I hate to like kind of generalize it, but like

Miami, we know there's no talking in a relationship. It goes from like zero to 100 and you're like, "Ah, you find yourself like an argument from like one second to another." She taught me how to use my words, you know, and kind of, you know, to be honest with you, how to man up and be a better father, better son. Uh, just Do you feel like you were more temperamental back then? Like maybe you had like a kind of a I was I you know, I held a I had a chip on my shoulder. I held a lot of grudges. I grew up without no father, cousin, uncle. I never had a male role model in my life. I never knew how to and I still don't know how to do a lot of [__] like I don't I'm not I'm

not a guy that's handy around the house. I'm like, "Yo, if you don't anything you need, I got you." Except like doing this. Uh but I've learned that along the way. But, you know, so a lot of those things I guess I held a chip on my shoulder. Yeah. Um but you know, I got over all that. I've I've worked on myself. I worked on my, you know, emotional reactions and I'm a whole different person. Yeah. I can't even see the old man anymore. Yeah. and um being in this relation. How long did you guys did you say you were?

We've been together six years. So, six out of the 10 years that you've been boxing. Yeah. This has been your relationship. All right. See, you got to tell these guys that who you align yourself with is very important. Well, that's one of the biggest things I tell my kids, who you have around you. You know what I mean? Like, uh you know that saying, uh tell me who you're with and I'll tell you who you are. You know what I mean?

Yeah. That's a Spanish saying. Exactly. Yeah. Exactly. So, uh, that's a big thing. I've I've changed my circle. And it's not that I have any love loss for anybody or, you know, not that I look down on anybody, but hey, everybody has their own thing going and do your thing. No problem. I just don't want to be involved in anymore. I got my own [__] going and uh I'm you know, life has got me riding a high right now, and I don't want to knock myself out of there. Awesome. That's awesome. It's about to be Valentine's Day. Do you have any She's not in here. Do you have any plans for her?

I just got her some Tell us. This will come out after. We're not going to tell her. Yeah. So, we leave to Nashville tonight cuz she wrestles this weekend. She'll be wrestling on Valentine's Day. But I got her a dopeass. She has like four badass wedding rings that I've got her already. So, I got her a wedding ring. Um not a wedding ring, but like another dope ring. Um yeah, I always shower her with gifts. I always I get her roses probably twice a week or not roses, but flowers twice a week. So, you guys are spending Valentine's Day in Nashville? Yes. I [__] love Nashville.

Yeah, it's cold up there right now, huh? Really? I want to go back so bad. That's where Aiden's been doing the fights. It's [__] Yeah. I actually know the Country Box. The people he does it with are good friends of mine. I want to go to Nashville and get [__] [__] face on broad. Yeah, that shit's wild. That's the bachelorette capital of the world. Lit. And the food. Oh my. I was there a few months ago and I went to uh Broadway like a [__] one in the afternoon and it was packed like Disney World. Oh yeah.

Like packed. Like you can't even walk on the streets. Crazy. I went to college in Tennessee, but I didn't really spend time in Nashville. I was like a nerd. You were in Memphis. I was in Knoxville. Oh, Knoxville. Okay. Yeah. Nice. Cold as hell, though. Yeah. I like Miami. Any Now that we did the cutesy stuff, we going to get deeper. Okay. Into the surface. All right. Before you met your wife, how crazy was it to like transform? And then I know the girls were like going crazy or did you ever even it was that ever a thing because I don't know. Sometimes

I was a dog my whole life. I was a dog No, what I'm saying is like was it easier for you to get women before or after the boxing or has have you said I've never had a problem getting women. Um and you don't take you as a type to have a problem. Yeah. Thank you. But like but what I'm saying is like is did the approach was different? Maybe because whenever girls are into boxers, I feel like Do you feel like they were approaching you more? Um, well, once I got into boxing, I feel like maybe, yeah, once like, you know, the ones that did know, I kind of get approached a little more. And then also, again, once you become a professional athlete, you clean up your lifestyle,

feel like you look better, you kind of glow a little bit, you know what I mean? And people want to be around that glow. Um, and then, you know, when you go to certain places, uh, the people that you're with, your circle, like, "Oh, this gu does this or, you know, this girl does that." And they're like, "Oh, shit." They kind of get introduced. The groupies, the groupies start swarming because they see, oh [__] who is that? He's doing something. Oh, this guy got money. And then you're the one that's getting introduced to everyone like, "That's my guy. He's the fighter." Blah, blah, blah. And the girls are like, " like you at the brain list, right?"

I saw it firstand I was like, "Oh my god, what?" She was like, "I didn't think he was cute, but god damn when he hit that guy." And then one of the guys that she thought was cute got knocked out. She's like, "No, done." Oh, yeah. That was another thing. That knocked the cute out of your head. Oh, yeah. No. Immediately, I was like, "Ooh." Yeah. Cancel that. But the other guy now in my head, his dick went from this to like this, man. Damn. That's [__] up. Sorry, dog.

Knock your dick down. Your dick in the dirt. Yeah. What was it? Hey, when it comes to women, like I again, like, you know, I was a dog. I didn't know what it was to have like a real relationship. Yeah. Um and I thank my wife for like kind of to not kind of like teaching me to like, yo, all I need is one woman. Treat a woman right. Um and you know, everybody's going to I know the comments like gay, but I'm happy, man. I'm I'm happy. I've never been like happy with a woman and I found happiness. I felt like I'm chill. I don't want to um you know, there's that saying too where like you know, two minutes of fun will give you a lifetime of hell. You know what I mean?

And I don't want to [__] what I have going on. My life is great. My children are happy. And you know, you go [__] around again for like two minutes or five minutes or whatever the [__] it last and then you [__] up your family and you [__] up a lot of things. A domino effect. Um, so now I'm thinking about that, thinking about that, which I never thought about before. So yeah. Yeah, I had good times in the past, but you know, I'm having a great life now. What are your like what are your dos and don'ts for dating? Like what are what do you look for in a woman? So taking your wife aside like be you know what is what are the things that you should look for in a woman or what is it that like a girl I want to date like be

with and stuff. Um oh she's got to be to get you to the path of like wanting yeah she got kids she got to be good to her kids and stuff first. That's number one. Um, if she has them. Yeah, if she has them. Cleanliness is number one also, I think. You know what I mean? She's got a good nice clean teeth, smell good, uh, dress decent, you know, keep herself up to date. Um, I don't know. One thing that I didn't really like was like girls that smoke cigarettes, you know what I mean? Yeah. Like their fingers.

Anybody that smokes cigarettes is not really Yeah. That was like a don't for me. It's like you can't love yourself if you're doing that. Yeah. Yeah, that's true. It really truly. Yeah. And another thing is uh maybe it's just a girl who's, you know, out there all the time, every weekend where she's like, you know, every time you look, she's doing something new. And not to knock that if you're doing that, you're doing it just for me. I was like, a turn off, right? The groupy [__] you never liked.

No. Good. Groupies are booby. Groupies are poopy. I want that on a shirt. Groupies are poopy. Um, has it like because I know Okay. I know working out makes you have better sex. Absolutely. Better cardio. Better cardio, right? Cardio. You're in shape. You can, you know, last a lot longer than you think. Probably got more flexibility. Get Do you feel like sex day is better than it was? Knocking that [__] out. Sorry. Do you feel like sex is better now than it was like 10 years ago?

Uh, it is. I mean, and again, I mean, it's going to sound uh it's going to sound whatever it sounds like, but you know, I found my woman. I found my match. I enjoy I obviously Yeah. Like I tell her like every time we you know, we get together and you know, we're together, it's like day one. I'm excited for it. I love her. Uh, and again, you know, being healthy, eating right, all that stuff. I think to me, my in my opinion, definitely helps in bed.

What do you think is a healthy amount for when you're in a relationship to have sex? For me, I'm a daily. Oh, how many times a day? Yeah, I'm a daily guy. Uh, again, I'm in my mid-40s. I still do it daily. Um, if I get twice a day, that's like a lot. You know what I mean? But definitely once a day, minimum of once every other day depending. You know, again, we got busy lives. Things are going on. We got kids running around the house. So sometimes you got to be like, have they ever come in on you?

Short punks. You ever had that little mis come in on me? Thank God. But uh but definitely you're like, you know, you're midstroke and the door's like, "Hey, Dad." You're like, "Oh, [__] Okay, hold on." Now everyone's scrambling. Yeah. You know what's your advice to these guys that are in relationships and not getting no ass? Oh man, you know, every relationship is different, but if you're looking to get daily ass from your woman, uh I definitely, you know, depending on what you look like, work on yourself, you know, get healthy, start working out. I

think, you know, the better you start looking, the more your girl starts wanting you. Um and vice versa, you get your girl to start working out, the better she looks, the more you want her. And I think foreplay, foreplay is huge. And again, like I get my girl roses maybe two to three times a week. Anytime if I'm in the street and I see a dude selling roses on the side, might already bought roses, I go buy or rose with flowers, whatever, I go get more flowers. Um, I treat my girl like if you know, like if I'm try I treat my woman that's already been my woman for six years, like I'm if I'm still trying to get her, you know, I keep everything interesting. We go eat at different places on a constant basis. I

um she's I'm still attracted to her like it's day one. Like I'm like if I'm still trying to hit it like I've never have. So um I think all that has to do, you know what I mean, with stuff. We do everything together. Anywhere you catch me, you'll see my wife. Yeah, guys. She's behind the camera here. Um so, you know, we do everything together. We talk about everything. Again, she's taught me how to like communicate. So, we have great conversations. There's no arguments. Um which to me, you know, is a rare thing when it comes to relationship. I was never used to that. It was always something else. It was always a cat and dog fight or you know, you're in a relationship where people are competing with you instead of

trying to help you out. Uh and that's not what I have now. Everything's to elevate each other, right? And um we keep the relationship fresh. Both our families integrate great. They love each other. Uh which is people can get past cheating in a great relationships. Like if as great as it is, if something like that happened, would you be able to get past it? Because you seem like you're obsessed. I am obsessed. as my wife and no I wouldn't get over I wouldn't allow that disrespect. No, I wouldn't. No, I know myself and again like at my age now especially like you know it's going so good that if something like that happens like it was

for a reason there's a lack of something there that your girl had to go find somebody else to do it with. Um so yeah and that disrespect I wouldn't be able I wouldn't look at her the same you know what I mean? I wouldn't feel the same. And then knowing myself, I'd be going to look out do if I wouldn't just leave her at the moment, which I probably would. I'd probably be looking to do the same thing. And then it just turns to [__] you know? Like, I'm not going to cheat on you, right? Or I'm not going to leave you. Yeah. Cheat on you first. Yeah. No, but your sister's going to Oh.

Oh my god. Oh, he's petty. Yeah. It's not petty cuz you don't mean that. I mean, I guess you could call it petty, but at the same time, like, damn, I thought everything was good. Yeah. I feel the same way, though. Like, if I got cheated on, I'd probably be like I would probably have my eyes set on his daddy or something like that. Yeah. I mean, they hurt you, so you're like, "All right, I got hurt. I'm looking for I'm looking to hurt somebody back." You know what I mean?

I think I would just disappear and never hear from me again. That's That's my thing. And I always tell people, too, like the worst thing I could do to you is make you my stepson. Be nice, [__] Call you Call me stepdaddy. No, the worst thing I could do to you is uh is cut you off. You know what I mean? Because I'm such a good friend, good person. I go out of my way. I give you the shirt off my back at any moment, any time. You can call me at any hour. So, the worst thing I could do to you is just cut you off and stop talking to you cuz I feel like, you know what I mean? And not to be conceited, I just feel like I'm a benefit in people's lives. I when I come into your life is to benefit

you, to help you, never to ask you or drag you down. So, you know, you do something to [__] me over, cutting you off, and that's the worst thing. What sign are you? I'm a Pisces. March 14, y'all. Happy birthday to me. It's coming up. Oh, is a number five, too. I don't know if you know about numerology, but number fives are very sexual. Really? Yeah. You're very sexual. I am very sexy. What's your favorite position? I like it from the back. I've always liked the backstroke.

Um I Your wife is a gymnast. That means she's really flexible, right? Yeah. Do you like turn her into a pretzel? I try at times. She's like, "Whoa, whoa, chill. I can't do that anymore." Wait, what's her favorite position? Um, turning him into a Yeah. When I put the leg back there. A little WWE. You do that. Are you able to do that? [__] No. [__] no. Um, her favorite position I think, you know, honestly, you know, according to her, we any position we have sex in is great. It's always very passionate. Uh, even the quick ones, the quickies that we got to get in before the kids start knocking on the door and [__] It's always, you know, it's never like a wham bam thing. It's always very passionate.

There's a lot of love behind the position. That's the position. I think any position, honestly. I think any position. Okay. Does body count matter? Um, I never ask about body counts. I none of your business. That's how I feel. It's none of my business. I don't look into people's past and, you know, vice versa. Like, you don't want to know about my past period. And that's that's another thing is everybody has a past whether it be like being in jail or it's like you don't sit there and like you don't want people to judge you off of like the [__]

that you've done in life and no and we've listen we've all lived you know we've all grace for people right and again anything before I met him before we got together anything that happened was none of my business I wasn't there for it I didn't know you like I'm not going to hold that [__] against you um a grown man I don't like response I don't like the jealousy thing. I don't like to ask questions that actually makes me feel bad if I got to ask you a question like, "Oh, who's this or that?" You're not a jealous guy. I'm not. I mean, to a certain point, like I wouldn't want like [__] somebody in front of me trying to hit on my girl or disrespect my woman or anything like that. Um, but no, like I'm not jealous to the point where I'm gonna

be asking you, "Hey, what are you doing? Where you at? I'm gonna freak out." She like talking to a guy or something. Yeah. I'm not [__] checking my uh my GPS to see where you're at and [__] You know what I'm not that dude. Uh I feel like if I got to be that person, then we shouldn't even be together. Period. Okay. So, since you're not a jealous guy, are you guys open with each other about other people? Like, if you find a girl attractive, are you like, "Damn, babe, she's hot."

Okay. So, or vice versa. Okay. So, just to clear over the question, we don't have an open relationship as communication. Yes. Communication is very open. open jealousy free. If there's a good-looking person, whether be a woman or a man, you know, if it's a good-looking person, hey, it's a good looking person. Like, oh, babe, you know, this guy, yeah, you know, whatever, a guy we're in a movie with or something, they need a looking good looking guy. If you want to look at a girl's ass, can you just be like, damn.

Oh, yeah. We do. We tell I'll tell them like that. You see that? You know what I mean? Especially being in Miami with all the BBLs, some nice asses out here. It's hard out here for a guy in a relationship because imagine a guy with a jealous woman. Yeah. It's funny cuz the guy came to Miami, you know what I mean? He started coming to Miami. He's like, "Man, all the women's out here got big butts." I was a jealous girl when I first moved to Miami because I was like, "Damn, these [__] are bad." I was not used to seeing this many bad [__] and I was walking at the time with my man and I saw him looking at a girl and I was like, when I tell you I flipped the

[__] out. Yeah. But it's like now living here for as long as I've lived, I'm just like now both of y'all turn heads. Yeah, we're both I think being realistic, you know, I mean, whether you're a man or a woman, and this is, you know, if it's a good-looking person, it's a good looking person. You know what I mean? Like, yo, but he didn't have to break his neck like that. He didn't have to do all that. He didn't had to do all that. It was like, you might as well turn around and walk with her. Go hold her hand. That's I think that's Well, you want that [__] Smash or pass single version Uli edition. Okay. All right. First single Julie smashing everything.

Okay. So, you're not like a picky dude. Okay. All right. So, I'll go first. Um, Lotto. I don't even know who that is. You don't know who. All right. So, we'll throw it back a little bit. You don't know who Big Mama is. Lotto. I don't even know who that is. All right. So, we'll try like a older one. Oh my god. You Jessica Alba. Beautiful. Yeah. Who the [__] is not smashing Jessica? Okay. Fair. Dang. If you say no. Gay.

Um, Jennifer Lopez. Yeah, man. She's beautiful, too. She's a vet. She's a girlfriend now, I think. All right. This one's going to sound crazy, but she got cake. Judge Judy. Judge Judy cake. Oh my god. That woman is an hourglass. I don't think I've ever seen her with I saw it for the first time a while ago and I was shocked. But Judge Judy, huh? I think I smashed that so we could get a discount at Denny's and [__] A senior discount or a passp. Yeah. Or get me off a case Judy. Okay. Sukiana. I don't know who that is. You naming all these people, man.

You don't know who Sukiana. Okay. A different one. Sexy red. Uh, I think I'll pass. Cardi B. I'll pass. I You know what it has to do? Just to be clear with this, too. Not that she's not beautiful. She's a beautiful woman. I just like certain attitudes like the girl could be not so good-looking, but have a great attitude, and it'll be better for me than having a beautiful girl. You don't think she has a good attitude? I don't know. She's kind of like I've never seen her not have a good attitude. She's always happy.

I don't know. I think she and like she just she don't like her Bronx accent. That's right. Oh yeah. I think she more like a dude sometimes. Yeah, that's but that's that's how New Yorkers are. Especially like hard New Yorkers. Yeah. Like Bronx. Yeah. You gonna get that. So who you got? Uh Ronda Rousey. Who the [__] is that? He knows that. Yeah. No. Uh Rhonda. I'll pass on Oh, too uh tough. I don't know. Oh yeah, she's kind of squared like a dude. She Okay. Um Yeah. She go see this [__] on World Star and call me out for a fight.

Do you know who Pearl is? Pearl? No. Pearl? Not Pearl from Bikini Bottom. Pearl the Oh, the commentator. She's like, "Oh, Pearl. She fought Burn Knuckle." No, no, not that one. Okay. Um I'm trying to Michelle Obama. pass that. That's the first lady. I know, but there's too many rumors about her being a dude. I'm not sure. Big Mike. That's true. There is a suspicious picture of Barack Obama with his alleged best friend at the in the 70s and the resemblance is Yeah, there's been a lot of weird stuff.

It's actually like Michael Robinson. Michael Robin. That's the real name. Oh, yeah. Michael allegedly. Yeah. Okay. Um, I have one. Give me a second. Kim Kardashian. Who the [__] is not smashing Kim? Yeah, I like the old Kim better. What's my on the old cam? The new one. I don't know what's the difference. She's an alien. It's not her. She's a clone. Possibly. Illuminati. Possibly. I don't know. After Kanye, I think I'll pass. Britney Spears.

Britney. Which one? The crazy Britney or Britney? I Well, listen. This is what This is how you can look at it, right? Crazy Britney looks like she gives sloppy head. Oh [__] Okay. With a knife in her hand. So that could be fun. For a high value man such as yourself. Thank you. You How does a woman go about locking in a high value man? Um, man, I don't know what's important to me. I would say loyalty number one. You know, you want to get with somebody, you want to know that they're loyal to you, that they're that they don't, you know, that they're not with you and then still looking for

something else. So, um, loyalty would be number one. Uh what I've learned myself through my relationship is, you know, good uh chemistry and being able to talk to your partner about anything and not just jumping to conclusions when you're talking about something because that's something I'm used to having to me. You're talking about something, they bring something up like, "Oh, did you do that?" You know, and you get into that [__] Um, so just being able to talk, have good chemistry definitely because the first thing you're gonna you know that's a you're attracted to is somebody's looks before you even get to know who they are. And uh but number one top priority in list is definitely you know respect and loyalty.

Okay. Um and that's it. Respect and loyalty. Yeah. Respect and loyalty definitely number one. And a big fat ass. That helps. So you heard it here. First ladies, badass world star, bad fat ass, respect and loyalty. And a gluk 3000 combo. Gluck 3000. Well, that's important. Sex is important, right? The hakua. The haktua is important. That helps in relationship as well. I mean, you know, it'll get you to the next step. So if you got respect, loyalty, a good hakua, what if a girl comes up to you and is or the girl that you want to be with? What if your wife comes up to you and she's like, "You know, honey, I think that I'd

like for you to have two of us." Um, maybe we should bring a second woman into our relationship. O, that'd be uh I'm going to say that'd be a tough one just because I think Don't give me the political answer. She's not going to kick your ass. She's not in your right. No, no, no, no, no. Not even It's not because of that. But I think it's a tough one because at the moment it sounds great, but I think once things are done, it [__] up the chemistry, [__] up the vibe, the dynamic, and you know, you brought something in that wasn't there before, and now, you know, again, it the rhythm of the relationship got [__] up there, I would think. You know, because there's a lot of guys that do

that though. They like they have a what is it called? Polygamy. Polygamous relationship. Yeah. like Neo. Neo has a he has three girlfriends. Oh [__] Well, God bless him and I you know I'm I'm sure it works out for them. But again, you know what you see? It's not your thing. It's not my thing because again, like it might be cool for the moment. He might have a great time for the night, but then in the long run it's not going to work out. And what we see, for example, Neil doing. Yeah. Okay. We know

he does that. We don't know what happens behind the scenes. We don't know how much [__] he gets from these other three women. And you know, what if your wife is like super into it though? Yeah. If she's super into it, then I guess we gotta go with it. You know what I mean? If she's giving me the green light and she's saying this is what she wants to do and it's not going to [__] with her, you know what I mean? I know it's not going to [__] with relationship in the long run. This is what she wants to do. Um I mean, you know, we'll go on the hunt for to see who she wants to do. On the hunt. It's crazy.

Yeah. But the trick with this is it's always got to be the woman who picks. Oh, absolutely. Yeah. It's got to be the woman. And again, it just can't, you know, you can't for two minutes of fun, you can't have a lifetime of [__] headaches. You know what I mean? That's what you're definitely not looking for. That is Hakua a deal breaker? It is for most guys. If she don't give Hakua Yeah. Like if she's just like Yeah. Cuz I'm, you know, I like everything except fingers in my butt. I don't [__] with that. But um yeah, I like to, you know, when if you're my girl, like, you know, let's let's go. Let's do everything. You know, I want to explore everything. I want to do things you haven't done before. Um, what does that mean?

I don't know. We're going to have to ask. Might mean she hasn't played with your butthole before and that's her. How do you know? Like, uh, I But what if that's her thing, Julie? What if she's just like, Julie, please, just please, man, just one time. No, I can't do it. Are you sure you don't like it? You've tried? No. See, so I've never tried and I don't know that it's not my thing, but I'll be happy to die knowing that it's not my thing. You know what I mean? I'll go to

my death bed. I never tried and I was happy with that, you know. Um I think you guys did a interview with Rampage that I saw that he was, you know, he was talking about it and uh he said he wouldn't do it either and he was I just don't believe guys won't do it. I just don't believe it. I'm sorry. I'll die on that hill. guy say it and then you get a little close to the guch and then you travel a little further. I don't and the boner like what are you doing? I just don't know. I don't know. Julie, I don't know. I feel like the majority of men that say they won't would.

Okay, great. So, now we're going to turn this around. Do you like sticking fingers in butts? In my butt? No. You're talking about in men's butts? I It would have to be a butt that I'm very familiar with. Okay. Like it's not going to be no like I'm not just out here putting my finger in people's butts. Not in stranger butts. No. No stranger but no stranger butts. Okay. So Okay. So you're a man that you know very well and you're used to and if that if it's experimental, you never give him like a sneak attack.

Like you know like oh that's okay. So like say we're wrestling, right? Like say we're play fighting and you have me in a position that I can't get out of. I might put my finger in your butt. Oh, okay. I might put my finger. Okay. But that's not sexual. You know what I mean? You're not you're No, no, no. That's for purely out of like out of Okay. Yeah. It's not like, you know, he's on top of you and then you [__] you scratching his back all of a sudden. And I But to be honest with you, that goes for anybody. Like if I'm ever in a fight, I'm probably going to put my in your butt.

Yeah. What was that? I'll fight you later. dude in the Christina's looking at me like it's awesome. I thought we should make a fight like that where you know you win whoever the butt first wins. I would win. I'm I'm like really I'm really fast. I'm like cuz my whole my mindset right you just really want to do that. No, I'm just saying it's a really great way to like even with Okay, maybe I shouldn't say this. Too late. I gota say if a dog ever bites you like if you ever get attacked by a dog that's like punching a shark in an old it'll stop doing it. They're

going to get and then you can it's a fleeing effect. You got to get you know if it bites you got to go for the mouth and try and pry open their jaws will like a pit. You're going to [__] pry open a dog's mouth. No. So how about what if you got a dog that likes it and he starts biting harder and [__] his dick gets hard. No, no, that's that won't happen. Not for I don't know. I just heard this is allegedly that's what would happen. Allegedly. Definitely sound like she's done this before. That's just like a Yeah, she used to be a vet before you say fire. Hey, not every dog needs a finger in his butt.

Just to get them off of you. Do you have a dog? Yeah, but that's not the point. All right. And my dogs are like angels. They're very sweet little puppies. I'm talking about big grizzly dogs. You know, the ones that they lock their jaws. I got two dogs. My boy's 180 pounds. You try Kane Corso or No, he's extra large pitbull. XL bully. And I have a girl who's an XL bully, too. She's 120. I guarantee you. I don't think they'll like fingers in her butts. It'll be a surprise. And then that smells on your finger forever.

Well, no, it's not. See, she's got experience. She said it's not. It's really not. Yeah. Hey, you're hurting her first. Rebecca J knows what she's doing. No, no, no. Just saying. You [__] with Rebecca J. You're going to get a colonoscopy for real. Dead ass. No, but it's just a good way to get out of a pinch. I have been I have talked to him and I even mentioned it to you and I'm such a fool because I really do feel like I go up there, I'm like, I could do that. And I'm probably wrong, but I feel like if I train I could like fight. Listen, we Well,

I'm just an untrained aggressive person. You I'll train you and I'll throw punches. We'll get your man in there so you can spar and you hit him with a one two finger in the butt. Oh, my manager. No. Yeah, I'll put the head gear on. You can just throw punches at me for real? Yeah. Okay, that'll be fun. I would like to see that. That's That's what I want to do. And I definitely It has to be Christina. She already promised me that I could hit her cuz I told her I want to hit somebody, but I don't want to be hit back. Yeah. That's kind of the name of the game, though.

I know, but I just wanted I want to know what it feels like to like, you know, I'm trying to see what it feels like for you to hit me, too. So, all right. That's the show, guys. Christina is going to turn this into some perverted way to try and get in bed with her. From fingers in the butts and get punching in the face. It's It's all You wrestle later. And if you got to do your little release. She's trying to turn boxing into something perverted for me. To be fair, it's always been perverted for you. Be fighting in the ring and [__] leave [__] in your pants after you fight Rebecca.

Oh my god. Oh god. No. So you What's next for you? What's going on in your life? What should people be looking out for? Um well, I just broke my arm recently, so I'm recovering from that. I have uh probably another six weeks before I could start like really punching things, but I'm still training every day. I run every day. I go to the gym. I hit things with one hand. Uh work a lot on my defense. So, I don't have uh any fights for myself coming up, but I'm working with BKB, Bare Knuckle Boxing. They have some events coming up. One in Wales coming up soon. Um go on Bare Knuckle Boxing Instagram and you can check out everything they got going on. You know, shout out to my sponsors, Accident

Medical Group. Shout out to Za app. You guys go download that. And shout out to West Mama Jewelry. That's my guy. Keeps me fresh to death. You guys need some jewelry, go see him for Valentine's Day. Um, and really, you know, I'm just hopefully some more movies soon with uh Julian. We just me and her just wrapped up Night Shift. That should be coming up sometime in the summer. Looking forward to that. I did a small role in Don Dero's uh movie called Spanish Fly. You guys check that out. It's about to drop 420. And uh, man, again, you know, I'm about to turn 45. I'm looking to transition into things like that.

Um maybe I could get a co-host gig with you right here talking about fingers in people's butts. Uh seems fun. Um but yeah, no, you know, I don't have any fights coming up, but as soon as I do, guys, check me out on Instagram, Julie Ly_mon, and I'll let you know what's going on. There's always something going on in my life, so just check it out. Anyways, and ladies, I truly appreciate the opportunity. You guys have been great. You keep kicking ass. You stop sticking fingers in ass. Listen, now this is what I'm gonna be known for. All right, great. Be on Instagram sometime. It's going to be a real on Instagram.

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