How to Transform Pain into Personal Power

This video teaches how to transform painful experiences and negative energy into personal power and growth. The speaker explains that by shifting perspective from victimhood to creator mindset, one can alchemize challenges like heartbreak, trauma, or setbacks into wisdom, maturity, and success. Practical approaches include redirecting energy toward purpose, separating from negative emotions, and using affirmations to build confidence and abundance.

Full English Transcript of: Turn your pain into power

If there's one thing I want you to learn from all of my videos, whatever one advice I can give everyone, it's learn how to alchemize energy. That's it. If you know how to do this, you will never lose in life. Because when you know how to alchemize energy, which basically means taking any lower vibrational energy that's sent your way, for example, you had a situation happen where you have a lot of sadness or you have a lot of fear or a lot of hate is sent your way. Then you take that energy and you transform it into something positive which you create something from it or you better yourself because you want to use that energy to become a better version of yourself. Then you

will always win in life because you realize that you can never lose. Everything in life that happens to you is just an experience. It is not good. It is not bad. It is just an experience. And then you can also realize that energy sent your way is neither good is also neither bad. It is whatever you make of it. Then you realize damn I have all the power. If someone for example sends hate your way and all you're going to do is sit and ruminate and feel bad or you're being bullied and you just sit and you ruminate and feel bad or you think to yourself, okay, wait, I am getting energy sent my way. I am really

important. So you say, "Okay, thank you for the energy." And you can do two things. You either send it back. So you say, "I return all this energy back to sender." Or you take that energy and you say, "How can I make something big out of this? How can I let this benefit me or how can I make money from this?" Hi guys, my name is Liz and welcome back to my channel. Okay, let's get into it. First things first, first thing is you should always ask yourself, what is this teaching me? So for example, anything that happens in my life, any bad thing or whatever, I don't look at it as like, oh my god, God is trying to punish me

right now. Oh my god, I'm getting karma, whatever. No, I just think what is this thing trying to teach me? Because I genuinely think that the universe and God always works in my favor. I genuinely think that I'm being guided always towards my highest good and my highest purpose. So when you work from this mentality, you never take anything that happens to you personal and you never victimize yourself. And see, when you don't victimize yourself, you literally accomplish anything in life because you know, look, I'm not a victim. I'm the creator of my life. I'm powerful. So you get into that powerful position and you look, okay, hm, what is happening right now? What am I supposed

to learn here? For example, let's take my situation when I got cheated on. I was thinking, okay, why did this happen? And then I realized, wait a minute, I have been given advice to women that got cheated on and that were in toxic relationships, and I've always been telling them like, do this, do that, like, choose yourself, all these things. And then I was thinking like, I've never really experienced that, though. I've never been cheated on. I've never had this thing happen to me. And then I was put in a position where I finally had it happen to me. And then I realized, wow, I learned so much from this. Like, it's so crazy to me how much wisdom I derived from this situation and

how much I myself matured cuz I also realized there's certain things in the relationship that I don't like about myself that I don't want to continue and I don't want to repeat again. So now I feel like I'm a way more mature and a way more healed almost version of myself because it made me open my eyes. And when you see any heartbreak that you went through or anything you went through as wow this really taught me a lot then you won. As someone who works in social media I understand the importance of having to write out my thoughts and ideas before I film my videos. When it comes to writing I sometimes struggle with getting my thoughts written out in the clearest

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weight cuz I had the same thing happen to me. I grew up I was a very skinny girl, very slender. And then when I had all the abuse, everything that I dealt with my dad, I developed bulimia. So I was binge eating and purging. And because of that, I gained a lot of excess weight that I could not get rid of. So all of this energy that was sent my way, which was all this trauma and PTSD, I transferred it into an addiction for food because I thought that way I can suppress the emotions that I'm feeling. But it was self-destructive. So then what happened is when I refocused that energy, that amount of energy into my Tik Tok, my Instagram and my YouTube, my business started blooming. Why?

Because the problem was never that I was not capable or whatever. No, it was that I was using all the energy that was sent my way in a wrong way. I was using it to self-destruct myself. But when I redirected the same amount of energy into something that I want to do and my purpose that started blooming and I became very successful. You see the reason that I couldn't get rid of this excess weight and whatever was because I was keeping that energy stuck in my body

instead of letting it move and letting it go into something else and creating something out of it. But when I started creating, I lost the weight. And like I literally my body I don't gain weight no matter what I eat nothing and the eating zord is completely gone because I shifted my focus from destructive energy to abundant energy. That's why movement is also so important because we interact on a daily basis with different people and we have energetic interactions where

we might take on some things from other people. Especially if you're a people pleaser and you're constantly listening to people's problems. You're taking that on you right now. When you take that on you, it's not necessarily bad if you then go and do something with it. For example, you go to the gym, you work out, and you'll notice, oh my god, I feel so much lighter and I feel better. Yes. Because you moved all of that energy that's stuck in your body. You move that. And now the energy has a way to release itself. That's why they also say like uh women for example or a lot of people carry emotion in their hips.

like twerking, dancing, moving your hips is really good for you to release that excess energy. Also guys, protect yourself, protect your energy, protect your oric field cuz we have a lot of stuff when we are not protected that can come in. For example, say on a daily basis, I am divinely guided and I'm divinely protected. When you step into the shower, when the water washes over you, always say, "I call all my power and energy back from all people, places, and situations that have been stealing it without my consent." Now, and I give back any energy that's not mine to carry. Say that three times a day. This is very important. Also, when certain emotions or whatever come your way, just

observe them, but don't become them. See, often times when we think like, "Oh, I'm I'm so sad right now. sadness, for example, comes your way. What you think is like, "Oh, I'm a depressed person." But you're not, though. You're not. You're dealing with sadness right now, which is separate. You look at it, you allow it to come in and you say, "Okay, I can grieve now. I can give myself time to grieve and when I feel better, I will be better." See, a lot of us put ourselves in boxes and we create illnesses for ourselves that were never even there in the first place. Why are you putting yourself in a box? Just say, "I'm healthy. I'm breathing. I'm happy.

Good things are here. Good things are coming. Just say good things to yourself. Also, always think, is this thought helping me right now? So, for example, when you think something and it's like super negative or super degrading for you right now. Just think to yourself, is this helping me? If it's not, don't ruminate on it for too long. Cuz when you do, you'll you'll find yourself becoming a victim again. Like, oh, the world hates me. Okay. And then what? like okay then like I just don't get it. I'm such a problem solver person because I've always had to solve

problems ever since I was young. So for me I never even give myself the permission to feel like a victim to sit there and like do nothing but just feel bad for myself days. I just think okay let me figure out okay let me do this no and that's how I go through life. Also channel the energy that you have received in something that you can create. See when our soul doesn't create our soul becomes depressed. We are sent here to earth to create, to have a purpose. We all have a purpose, whether it's small, whether it's big, but you're always leading an impact in someone's life. And some people have the purpose in your life to show you what not to be like. Like genuinely, I've had some

people in my life where I was like, damn, like I don't want to be like you, but that person motivates me to do better. Genuinely. So, how we look at, for example, artists or stuff, right? like they go through a heartbreak, they create a song, you can create poetry, you can make art, you can channel the anger and resentment that you have into helping others. Like just think to yourself, what would help others? How can I share my story? How can I put myself out there? Or if you just want to help your friends, help whatever, like transmute that energy into something positive. like your story can maybe help millions of people and you might think like oh no

it's already out there I'm not important you are important because things are not out there with your energy they might be out there with my energy or someone else's but someone might resonate more to you so don't think that just because it's already happening or that art is there or whatever I'm not important you are important you are very important also call yourself back into your body. A lot of you guys do not feel alive or do not feel like you're there because your soul doesn't feel safe inside of your body. Look, if we have went through something very traumatic, our body, our physical body can become a place that is

not comfortable for our soul to be in. But then you have to call your own name and say it's safe for you to return. and say that to yourself because when you do that you are signaling to your soul that you are a safe space but you also have to be conscious about creating a safe space for your soul to be in. Look when we indulge in addictions for example a lot of time you won't feel like yourself anymore because your soul thinks that you're volatile. Your physical body is

volatile and you're just always like this walking around doing the craziest stuff. So when your soul doesn't feel stable, it doesn't want to be there. So you have to create an environment where you feel like, you know, my soul would love to be inside of my body. How you do that is by showing yourself love, by showing up for yourself, by being mindful about what you put in your body, by being mindful about the addictions and the self abuse that you put yourself through. Because you know, we talk about abuse from other people a lot or toxicity from other people. But the biggest abusers are us. We abuse oursel the most. Like for example, let's say when you get bullied or you get

hate, right? Can it really affect you unless you let it affect you? No, it can't. Like you are the only one that can allow that thing to go into your head and to ruminate there. These people are not in your head. These are separate entities. Now it is up to you whether you open that door for them to come in or you close it and you take whatever they energy they have here and you say, "Okay, I'm going to make something nice for it for myself." And who can break you when you have a mentality like that? Please tell me who. It's like impossible. Because if you are a person that never sees anything that happens to you as negative,

you are one of the strongest person alive. Like truly, you are a wizard. You are an alchemist. Also, you have to say this affirmation and it's anytime my name is spoken, I get more beautiful, wealthier, and healthier. Just keep saying that and watch what happens because anytime someone mentions your name whether it's good or bad because they're sending energy towards your name then it will transform into something good for you. So if you're for example being bullied also you have to realize that you have something that other people can feel and they are for whatever reason sending energy towards your way. I feel like being bullied is celebrity energy. That's how you know

you have the potential to become a celebrity later on because I was always bullied always. Um never fit in anywhere. And I realize now why there is a certain sense that intimidates people when they see you, you have something that you don't even understand. You will see that most celebrities will tell you that they were bullied and it's because genuinely people see something in them they cannot see for themselves. have to be so thankful for life's experiences cuz you're going to learn a lot and all the pain that you have everything that is genuinely the thing that is going to teach you the most if you think like oh my god once I have success it's not honestly as someone that has experienced

both and that keeps experiencing both which is pain and success I don't learn a lot from my success like it's nice for a couple days maybe a month whatever but then when I experience something bad or something that is meant to hurt me. I know that damn this will give me more wisdom. I can share more now with people and I can help them more now. So that makes me really excited and those are the things that I learn the most from. Also, you know, when you are in your struggle phase and you are still in that mindset of like, oh my god, I have to make it. That is such a good place to be in. Like a lot of people that have already made it that came from nothing,

they wish they were in that mindset again because that's the mindset that keeps you going in life. When you are in survival mode, you have the most amount of potential because anything you do is just better than the situation that you're in right now. Like life only depends all on you. Whatever you do with your pain, with everything that you go through will determine how successful you will be. That's it. The successful people and the ordinary people, the one thing that differentiate them is the successful people do not have time to be a victim. That's it.

They don't take their situations and be like, "Oh, poor me." No, they just think, "Okay, got to learn from this and move on like this." And I feel like a lot of people that never make it in life or never accomplish anything, they just sit and they're comfortable in being like so sad for themselves and sit and whine. And it's like, you know, I when I say like no one is coming to save you, I mean like yeah, your mom can try and like talk you give you motivation, your

your sister can try give you motivation, but if you yourself are not going to do anything about it, your situation is never going to change. Like this is why a lot of families that deal with addicts for example, they truly give up on them on at some point because they cannot help them. These people have to want to help themselves. That's it. I just think that's so powerful because I just think when you realize that all the power lies within you that you can change your life only you when you decide that then wow what can you not accomplish? You can accomplish anything you set your mind to. You know, my therapist, she told me this story once where she said she used to do energetic healings on

people, okay? And she told me this story where she said that there was this woman and her husband would constantly bring her in to help her heal cuz she was very depressed and she had some sort of illness. And my therapist kept doing energetic healings on her, but she was never getting better. And she found that so weird. But that woman kept coming back, kept coming back, and the husband kept bringing her. And then at some point, one point she said, "Listen, I keep doing these healings on you, but you're not getting better. I don't understand why." And then that woman looked at her and said, "Look, I am happy in this position. I am happy being sick." And then she said, "What do

you mean?" And she said, "Yeah, because this is the first time that my husband is giving me a lot of attention and he's taking care of me. So, I don't want to heal from this illness." And then she realized, oh my god, like a lot of people are happy in the victim role because that is the only way that they have ever felt relevant or they felt like they have received love, which is selfdestructive, but it makes a lot of sense cuz if you constantly make people feel pity for you, you feel like, oh wow, like you almost feel like a child and everyone wants to take care of you, right? But does that make you super successful? No. But not a lot of people

want to be super successful. They just want to be in that mindset and that's good for them. But I really believe in having agency over your life and I really believe in controlling your life as best as you can. And humans love control. You know, I would hate to be dependent on some someone else's outcome or whatever. It's like whatever I can physically do to transmute this into something better, I will do because in my head that gives me the most amount of control over that situation. I just feel like we take things like relationships and whatever like way too seriously.

It's like, oh my god, my heart got broken this and that. It's like you can move on from that, you know? It's like, oh, I lost my friends. Okay, you can move on from that. Like, oh, I lost my job. okay, you'll find a better job. Like you never lose anything. It just was not meant for you at that time and you will get something better. That's it. Like in my life, anytime I thought like, oh, something is gone or whatever, I've always gotten something better. So,

I never lost anything in my life. I just got a better life. And that is really what you get when your mentality is that God is working in your favor. That the universe is working in your favor. start really thinking that life is set up for you to win and that is when you will win. Anyways guys, I hope this video helped some of you guys and uh yeah, I hope you understand the concept which is basically take any energy send away, say thank you so much and turn it into

something else that is good for you that you can make a lot of either money like happiness like whatever you want from that situation you can create that once you realize that I'm going to put this somewhere that is most beneficial for me. I love you guys so much and yeah, I will see you in the next video. Bye-bye.

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