Dating Coach Helps Client Choose Between Three Different Matches

A dating coach works with a client named Carolina who has matched with three different men on a dating app and struggles to choose between them. The coach provides guidance on communication, confidence-building, and practical dating strategies through text analysis and simulated dates, helping Carolina navigate her options and reflect on compatibility.

Full English Transcript of: Carolina's Match - The Dating Coach FULL SEASON 3

Sophie's the best dating coach in the city and her third client is Carolina. She matched with three completely different guys on a dating app. However, they are all green flags and she can't choose which one she likes more. Will Sophie be able to help her find her true love? Hi. Carolina? Yeah. Hi. Um we spoke on the phone, but tell me more about what I can help you with. Yeah. Uh so I matched with three guys on a dating app and I need your help in picking the right one. Oh, okay. That makes more sense. Cuz on the phone, I heard you say you had three boyfriends and you know I low-key panicked a little bit.

No, no, no. Great. Well, tell me about these guys. Well, so they're all very different. Uh-huh. That's the problem. No. The problem is they're all great and I like each one. And I don't know which one to pick. I'm not very good at this kind of stuff. Dating? Opening up. Talking about myself. I mean I get weird and I don't know what to say. Oh, well that's not a problem at all. So you can help me? Yeah. I heard really good reviews about you. Oh, well of course. Three guys, Khan, Christian, and Dylan. One's super nonchalant, one's very funny, one's very sweet. Let's see if they all like Carolina, too.

Okay, so here are their profile on Duet. Duet? Uh yeah, it's this dating app. I mean all my friends found their boyfriends through it, so I decided to hop on there. Literally soulmates. Oh, okay. And this is Khan. He's very cool and nonchalant and he does martial arts. Sounds like a cool guy. Who's next? This is Christian. He's very extroverted, very funny. He makes a lot of jokes and he's an actor. Great. And the third guy? This is Dylan. He's really sweet and a bit more quiet and he sings. Again, sounds great. All right. Do you feel like you like one more than the other or you relate to one more?

No. I mean that's the thing. I like all of them. I relate to all of them. Hm. So Khan, he's he's very reserved and more closed off, kind of like me. And then Christian, we have the same interest in movies and TV shows, food, artists. And then Dylan, we both sing and we both grew up in the same small town. So you basically found three different versions of yourself. Yeah. Well, it's really great that Duet does a really good job at finding you a match, but they did it so well that you now can't pick. Exactly.

All right. Well, let's just start off simple. Uh shoot them a text. Like right now? Do you want to wait till next year or Yeah, yeah. Mhm. What do I say? Just say how are you. Okay. Um by saying to text them how are you, I didn't actually mean just text them literally how are you. What else then? Okay. First of all, remove that period at the end. Never put a period at the end of a sentence unless you hate that person. And then add a few letters at the end of the last word to make it a bit more softer.

Yes, perfect. Are you sure I never text like this? Yes. [snorts] Wow, these guys are fast. They must all really like you, too. Okay, what they say? Khan said good wub, Christian said good, how are you? And Dylan said, I'm doing great, thanks. What about you? Now what? Now just say um I'm doing good. Can I ask you something? Khan said shoot. Christian said ufk and Dylan said, yes, what is it? All right. Now say what girl are you looking for? No, that's way too fast. Trust the process. That's fast, but I guess a really good match, someone who I can bond, relate to, and have a good time with.

Christian, damn, we going straight to it, buttercup, huh? Love it. Someone really special and kind and beautiful. Dylan, lol. A girl I can take care of and feel close to. Well, do you now feel closer to one of them? No. I mean they're all really good answers and plus Well, just say the truth. What kind of guy are you looking for? Um someone who's like not insane. Okay. Um I think we can aim a bit higher than that. I mean I guess someone who's sweet and smart and honest and who I can be myself with.

Sounds wonderful. Send it. Khan said bet. Very chill. Christian said, you're talking to the right guy. Very confident. And Dylan said, yes, that's very good. Very sweet. All right. So, they're all green flags through chat. Now we got to see if they're the same in real life, too. So we got to go on a date? Not yet. We must investigate before meeting. Do you know where they usually go to? Yeah, they mentioned it on their Duet profiles. We matched cuz we live close together. Oh, well, that makes my job easier.

Ooh. One time I had to fly to Spain for a client's crush. All right. Can I see? You're not going to like stalk them, are you? Oh, no. I don't do that anymore. Right. Sophie's undercover as a college student. She shall see if all of the guys act just the same outside the phone. Excuse me. Hi. Sorry. Uh I'm Olga from Los Angeles College. I'm doing a test survey where I ask people one question for a research. Do you mind participating?

Yeah. Can I ask you one question? Sure. Yeah, what's the question? What do I have to do? Oh, just answer this one question. Sure, what is the research for? It's for children's social development program. Oh. Hope I can help you with this topic. What is the most important thing for you in a relationship? This is for kids? How old are these kids? You said this was for the children's social development research program, right? That's correct. Oh. Um Look, I don't make the questions. I just go up to people and ask them. All right. Uh trust. Um communication. Probably looking out for one another. Hm. For sure. Yeah. That's great. Why is that?

I mean being able to trust each other, being honest is the key to a healthy, good relationship. Um in a relationship, communication is key. If you can talk to somebody and you understand them, that's a relationship. But if you can't, it's not love. Uh you have to make them feel safe. They have to feel nourished and make them feel trusted. Good answer. Okay. Thank you. Yeah. Hope the kids got what they needed. Great. Uh thanks so much. Oh, yeah. No. No problem. Great. Okay. Great, thank you. Hey, also, tell your kiddos I said hi.

Back to the office. It's time for Sophie to teach Carolina how to talk to each one of the guys so their first date goes smoothly. These are your dates. Absolutely not. We're going to use them to practice on your guys's first date. No. Yes. Let's start with Khan. Hey Carolina. How are you? Good. Uh-huh, continue. That's it. That's all I got. Okay. We know that Khan likes martial arts. So, ask him about that.

Uh so, you like to punch people for fun? Okay, maybe don't ask him about that. Okay. What do you do after going home? I go home. Nice. What do you do then? Stay there. You said you and Christian have the same taste in food. So, ask him about that. You like to cook? Oh, hell yeah. You? Oh. Dang it. All right. Let's try another approach. Dylan is super sweet, so you got nothing to worry about sharing anything with him. He'll agree. So, just when he asks you something, try to keep the flow of the conversation, okay? Try it.

If we were to go back to the town we grew up in, what would be the first place you'd visit? Uh probably the little corner bakery. Oh, yeah. They were so good. Yeah, the cookies there are dangerous. So much better. When Khan asks you a very simple question, just simply answer back but a bit more specifically. Just more than just what did you do yesterday stuff, okay? So, what's your favorite color? Red. Good. Keep going. So, with Christian, he likes a lot of jokes, right? So, just roast him back. You know, tease with him, have fun. He'll appreciate it. So, I heard you like funny guys.

I do. Uh-huh, that means you like me, too. I said I only like funny guys. Carolina, that was so good. Thanks. Yeah. You're ready for your first date. Uh oh my god. Uh do I wait for them to invite me? I got to do what? Send them one simple voice message asking them out on the date. But why me? Cuz if you want them to come, you got to ask them. Well, why are we outside? A voice message is a bold statement. So, if you act super chill and walk as you speak, it shows confidence. It shows that you're going places and not just waiting to hear back from them. Just open the

duet chat, you're going to click the voice message button, start walking, and say, "Hey, do you have any plans tomorrow? Maybe we can go grab some food and meet in person." That's it. You got this. Hey. [clears throat] It's okay. Let's try again. Yeah, yeah. Let's try it. Well, I just asked him if he knows how to eat. Imagine he says no. Hey, I want to grab some food tomorrow and was wondering if you want to meet in person. What do you think?

[screaming] That was perfect. Now you're just going to do it two more times. Huh? Well, you sent it to Khan. Now you got to send it to the other guys. Finally, it's time for the three dates. With Sophie next to Carolina and each guy and even a planned surprise to test each guy's protection and loyalty, Sophie and Carolina will finally find the match for Carolina. Hey. How are you? Uh good. Great. You know, I always thought people who do martial arts are really aggressive and loud. But you're the total opposite. You're like a peaceful ninja.

A peaceful ninja? Is that good or bad? It's very good cuz I feel calm around a peaceful ninja. Oh. It's nice to finally see you. Yeah, same. So, you know, do I look better in person than my photos? No. Duet is really realistic with profile pictures. Wow. Wasn't expecting that coming from Carolina. I like it. So, um how was the drive? Uh it was good. How was yours? Uh good, too. Yeah. So, uh what do you get here? What's what's good here? Uh I usually get the lemonade. I like it a lot. Okay. Sounds great. I will get that, too. And just both of my knees were out. I'm

laying in bed for 4 weeks. Oh my god, that's crazy. Yeah, I know, right? So, if you do martial arts, you must have good reflexes. Yeah. Hm. It's fine. Here's your fork. Oh. Reflex test passed? Yeah, and aim test failed. Did you eat? Sorry. No, I didn't. I got a question. You said you like fries, too. If I were to order fries right now, would you eat some with me?

Hm, depends. On what? If you say I ate again. You're right. But what's funny? Hm? Here. I made you a heart-shaped napkin. My sister taught me how to make it. Wow. I've never had anything like this made for me before. This is really cute. Thanks. Wait, watch. It's cute, too. It looks like a deformed potato. It's a heart. You know, that's what matters. Oh, excuse me. I'm I'm so sorry, but you are so beautiful. Could I get your number?

Hey, man. She's not interested. Oh, does she know that? Yeah, she knows that. All right, fine. Hey, I noticed you were sitting in here and I was sitting outside, but I think there's something wrong cuz we should definitely be sitting together. Very solid pick-up line, but it's terrible. And we're also on a date here. So, I mean, just grab a chair and you can sit with us. Um I'm good. Thanks, dude. See you. Excuse me, you are so beautiful. Are you mixed? Cuz you look like you're half mine and half mine. Hey, sorry. Um we're kind of on our first date here, so she's not really looking for anyone else.

All right. You sure? Yeah, she's she's sure. Okay. Sorry. No problem. Have a nice day. Jerk. You good? Yeah, I'm fine. Thanks. You're so beautiful. There's no way guys come up to you like that. What do you mean? But you're okay though, right? Yeah, yeah. I got you. Are you okay? Yeah. Yeah, we're fine. Okay, good. I just want to make sure it didn't make you feel uncomfortable.

Okay. After the three dates, it's time to reflect and pick the one for Carolina. Well, it's a lot. Yeah. Well, three dates in one day is a lot. Yeah. So, start talking. Well, they're all good. Mhm. They're all differently good. Yep. That's the same problem we had since the beginning. I mean, Khan's really cool. I like that. Mhm. And Dylan's really sweet. Very And Christian, he was looking annoyed at first. But then he kind of got me.

Like he jokes around a lot. But then when I'm more myself and quiet, he gets me and he adapts. And then when the stunt guy started flirting with me, he laughed. And then he checked up on me. Like he was protective, but not clingy or too overprotective. I think I liked him the most. I agree. Really? Yeah. You laughed the most with him. You guys looked really balanced together. What is it? I just I would never really imagine myself ever being with him. I mean, I'm not like him at all. He's really loud and extroverted and I'm quieter and controlled. Maybe I should find someone who's quieter, too.

First of all, you are very much like him. You both have many things in common. You both like the same things. You both have fun today. I mean, that's everything that matters. He protected you while giving you space. He lit up the room while you kept peaceful. Because you two are so different, you're so great together. I mean, there's a reason why you matched on the app. Call him. Right now? Yeah, yeah, I know. Not next year. Yep, right now.

Hey. Hi. So, what's up? I had fun today. Ooh. Me too. I'd like to hang out again. Hell yeah. Uh let's let's do it. Okay. When? Uh don't worry, I'll text you. I ain't worried. Bet that. Bye. Bye, buttercup. Buttercup is crazy though. Oh my gosh. Sophie's back in her office. Hmm. Let's see what Carolina's profile says now. Aw. That's really great for Carolina and Christian. They were really cute together.

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